Week 7: Dad in law was not feeling good

 Feburary is off to a busy week. With dad in law got a bad case of food poisoning. Wife is busy with work and me with friend issue. There is a never a dull moment in my household. I still want to carve out time to play some videogames. I'll be happy if we can get 10 games this year. I tihnk playing games its not on my list of priorities. 

Feb 1

• After class got a call from step mom in law saying that my father in law fall down and he wants met to help carry him. Woke up wife, H2 wanted to tag along and we went to dad's house

• In the car we had the fight again about why I think it is a bad idea for wife to buy the house. I said my peace on why I hate her mom. I hate her mom (your grandma) because for all the years we are married he mom is the only thing that manage to screw my wife again and again which will cause her to be depressed. I can bet this deal that she makes to buy the house from my mom will definately screw her over somehow which I know it is going to happen. But again... its not my money and I can't have a say on anything. 

• Came to dad in laws house and he was in the toilet. They told us she was have uncontrollable diarrhea and poop went everywhere in the room. My two brother in laws were there and I wanted to help but I can see that my dad was uncomfortable seeing me there so I stayed outside the toilet

• Then came the part the kids are trying to convince him to go to the hospital. Even my wife can't convince him to go to the hospital. My father in law is a stubborn person. He burst again the living room and this time poop was all on the floor. He went back to sleep and there is nothing much we can do. 

• Sister in law arrived but brother in law had to go home to pick up some clothes to stay the night since none of us can stay the night. After a while sister in law bought us some food and we left in the evening

• The cleaner was supposed to come to massage wife but the rideshare fare was too expensive so she decided not to come. Did classes and then went to sleep

• My mom just finish her spritual seminar and was on her way home by bus. Arrival time tomorrow morning and my brother will pick her up

Feb 2

• After classes this morning I decided to cook something new. I made some ceaser salad pasta chicken. It was delicious

• Took a nap while the girls watch some Mandalorian. 

• In the evening it was decided that I have to go to my dad in laws house since the others are busy with other comittments. 

• In the evening got packed up (left my charger plug but just the cable) send H1 to her university and went to my father in law

• Father in law is feeling better so talk to him and my step mother in law and around 11pm I went to sleep

• My best friend was crying today. She is just so tireed with life. I told her that everything is going to be okay. Take it a day at a time

Feb 3

• This morning woke up and did classes in father in law house. After class I went down to see what dad is doing. I ask him lets go to the hospital and he said yet. I even got him to eat a banana. 

• At 1030am we arrived at the hospital. Dad was pushed to the observetory and he was put on a drip. We were allowed to sit with him and I took that time to take a nap. The doctor arrived later and his blood test results were not that good. His kidney function is quite bad and he doesn't want to be hospitalized due to not having insurance. So we paid the bill, got the medicine and went home. 

• Before going home we went to pick up my brother in law so they dad can take his BMW which is in the shop. I told him to see the car because it is an old piece of junk but knowing him. He will do the opposite. 

• Left home after 2pm and pick up the cleaners and then pick up H2 and wife and went home

• I ate leftover porriage with some condiments I bought at the nasi lemak store. Wife and H2 ordered some homst. Send the cleaner back around 11pm. Today she didn't clean she instead gave wife a massage. 

• I got a text from an old friend. Just watch catching up. Last time they came to see was 6 years ago. They maybe want to come down end of this year. But that is a problem for another time 

Feb 4

• Would you believe I forgot to blog about today. Lets see if I remember anything 

• Good thing I told someone about my day. So send H2 to school. Today she is dress is nice cloths since it’s Arabic day. She is in charge of plates and cups. 

• Send wife’s car after sending her to work to be serviced and pick it up by 1

• Today cooked some tandoori chicken with roasted potatoes since I need to finish that Greek yougurt. 

• When picking up H1 we went and pick up H2. H2 and boyfriend stayed until dinner at ate the meal. 

• Pick up cleaner by 4 and send her mom by 1130

• Got into a fight with wife. She said she doesn’t want to give sex to me anymore and I think I am okay with that. If I stop asking her I will be okay. So I think starting today I don’t have don’t have a wife anymore and I am okay with it. There is always something at the end of the tunnel 

• Best friend text me and said that loan sharks came to her because her father borrowed 35k and they are asking with interest. Sigh… that’s more money down the drain

Feb 5

• So my friend dad borrowed money from some loan sharks and she needs to pay them 50k otherwise they will do bad thigns to her. So after sending wife I went to get some groceries and pick up H2. Went to the bakn and took out some money to gave to her. I am running out of funds... Im sad but its okay. It is just money. I will get it back 

• Today since is thrusday I will have to stay late at wife's uni so I cooked some yakisoba and then did classes there. 

• Met a new friend which is the lawyer of my friend. We are both worried about her but the friend told me it’s going to be ok. 

Feb 6

• This morning H2 decided no to go to school since she has sports day training and she doesn't like sports day. So I get to do extra classes before sending wife to work

• Came back and got ready to go to the mall. Wife wanted to eat there. We had some indonesian food. H1 came with hr boyfriend but we already left. I gave her some money to eat. 

• At home the girls watched some mandalorian and H2 made a very beautiful flower with led lighting 

• My best friend is not having a good day. She is crying to the situation. I tried to cheer her up but it only makes matters worse 

• The other best frieinds is reeling from a breakup which is causing her to self doubt herself which is not that good. 

Feb 7

• After classes we bought some food nearby and headed to dad in laws. Everyone follows even the reluctant H1

• Met dad in law. He is looking great only still a bit weak. But his apetite is back so that is a plus

• Took a nap on the couch while the others took a nap at the room. Left the place close to 430pm. Stop my Mcd for some ice cream 

• Did some classes and at night made some chicken burger with fries for dinner. 

• My friend was annoyed that I keep texting her lawyer asking about her. She said is an invasion of privacy and I am more conceren as her friend. I don't think I will get through to hre in this short time. It is okay. This is a work in progress. But going forward in the future I am going to refrain of giving money. Now I understand why you want to put expectation on something you have no control off. I think I need to temper my expectation and just go with the flow. I leave it to Allah to guide me. 

Next week the onlyl thing I am going to look forward to is my best friend coming on Friday because I am hosting dinner for his family. Other than that lets pray of an uneventful week because that is all I hope for. Plus I want to try to finish Hades 2 by this week so I can move on to my next game.

She-Hulk Attorney At Law

Probably is Deadpool-lite 

Her own show: Cousin of the Hulk. Jennifer Walters is now the She-Hulk which she use to navigate being single as well as being a lawyer all without ripping her clohtes off

Cameo central: I think this show has more cameos that most show. There is Bruce, Wong, Emil, Matt Murdock and a lot of C grade superheroes 

Breaking the fourth wall:  Like Deadpool breaking the fourth wall. Jen does it only to narrate to the audience about what is happening with the story. Which is a bit refereshing in my opinion

Ending: The ending does not make sense. But I think they can't stick the landing so that is why it was all over the place. Plus are we going to address Hulk now has a son? Not sure if he will return.

The Client

I think it would all be solve if the boy just tell the truth 

What is it about?
A boy became a high value withness and now is hunted by the mob hires a lawyer to protect him

The Good
The story is great. Easy to understand 

The Bad
Where are the police in this matter. Really like there are no police at all in this matter. The boy is free to go wherever he wants 

The bad guys are quite dumb in my opinion 

A bit too long 

The Ending 
Nothing much 

After Credits: No 

Verdict: Its an okay movie but nothing special 

Top Chef 22 : Destination Canada

The only reality show that I love to watch 

Different cities: I think now I get why Top Chef is always in different cities since the food culture in different cities provides a different challenge for them 

Death in the family: I think this is the first time in Top Chef where a contested is called out of the competition because of a family emergency which in the end it turns out that his father past away 

I want to learn fine dining: Really whatever they cook looks amazing. I wish I could taste it. But I do notice that with fine dining is there to taste not to get full

Did the right chef won: Yes I think they did since at the end all the chef are great. Anyone could be a winner 

The Marvels

This is MCU biggset flop but I like it 

What is it about: 

Captain Marvel is entangled with Monica (Photon) and Kamala (Ms Marvel) to stop the end of the galaxy 

The Good 

This movie is kinda nice. Very laid back 

The relationship between the marvels are awesome. I wish there was more of it
Due to the mcguffin captain marvel is not as powerful as she is in the first movie 

The post credits 

The Bad
This movie feels a bit disjointed since there are multiple things they need to focus 

The bad guy looks a bit stiff. Like they don't know how to act that much 

The Ugly 
Goose. Not enough of goose 

End Credits: Yes and I think this one of the top 5 end credits

Verdict: A great Marvel movie. Now all my MCU movies are complete 

Ms Marvel

One of the best Marvel series so far 

Who is Kamala Khan: A high school student who has the ability to control light due to being half mystical and half human. Plus he is the first muslim superhero

The story: This story is very muslim friendly. Being a pakistani muslim girl in the place where you are marginalise by other people 

Powers: Her powers are more light based than the comic where she is stretchy.  I like this kind of powers since you can make anything with light 

Cliffhanger: It ended with a scene from the Marvels. That will be the last see of Kamala Khan. No ideas if she will be back 

Week 5: I got scammed

Last week of January and this week I got scammed badly out of BTS tickets. I feel like an idiot. I have no one but myself to blame so I will pull myself back up and recover. Other than that. The week wasn't that bad. I didn't finished a single game this month but this year I'm targetting at least 10 games since I have a lot of long form games this year.

Jan 25

• Send mom to the hotel only to realised that she took the car keys with her. Ask her to send it back via messenger 

• Send wife's car to be washed 

• After that went to the mall for lunch. Had some Korean and then went shopping for stuff. Met wife brother and he brought the new baby. He confronted me about going viral. I ask him am I still viral. He said yeah... just give it a while. 

• Came back home and need to help H1 move to her university. Carried all her stuff up and mop the floor. Wife was asking until when I would help her. I have no answer for that since I am the dad. So I think I am forever will be on call 

• Came back home and brought wife to get her shot and then went home to clean myself up and go to sleep

Jan 26

• Send wife to her office and then went to get things for lunch. Today I made a chicken salad. Wife ask if I could make some for her office mates. I said okay. So I made it with some fries as well. 

• Did classes the whole day today and in the evening installed some lightblubs around the house. 

• I need to start playing games back. I really don't have the time to do it. Need better time management. 

Jan 27

• Send wife and then buy ingredients to make chicken curry with roti canai  

• Other than that is a very low key day 

Jan 28

• After class send wife to her office and went to buy groceries for 3 days. We are trying to eat less since we want to lose weight

• Lunch at the uni food court and bought some noodles for H2. 

• In the evening I made some roasted herb potatoes with oven chicken and salad

• Slept early 

• My new friend is coming in terms with his affair partner being a big jerk and she felt she was only being used for sex. Block me in the morning and came back to me at night

Jan 29

• Today cook some pulled beef but I think I made the mistake of the beef I took so it was a bit tough. I can eat it but my wife can't. In the afternoon we we made wraps and at night I switch it up to make a rice bowl

• In the evening I had to go to wife office since she has classes until 9:30pm. Looks like this is this is going to be my routine every Thrusday until the end of the semester

• My mother in law came. This is very unfortunate since she came without any warning and its so annoying. Wife say they will be here until Sunday. Due to this, I can't ask my maid to come over tomorrow. 

• My new friend is having a rough time. Its okay.. She is going to be fine. Maybe she should fall before she understand 

Jan 30 (unmemorable) 

• H2 is not going to school today since the school has a picnic quite far away and we didn't want her to go. So she slept 

• I cooked some veggies pasta with chicken tenders

• Mom in law left today but not after giving a bombshell that she wants wife to continue her house loan. I told my wife a straight now unless we can sell the house right away. Safe to safe we didn't talk about this issue after that but I am going to bet that this is going to come up again in March 

• I got scammed, I tried securing BTS tickets for wife in Korea but it turns out that the person didn't deliver and then they blocked me. So I am out 1800. Sigh. I did make a complaint and I hope the can get my money back but I am not hopeful. Sigh

• Took cleaner and at night had some chinese food 

• When I was sending the cleaner she left her phone so I have to circle back. So tiring.

Jan 31 (Death) 

• After class I took a short nap. We were supposed to go to a wedding but wife was not ina social mood. So it took us 2 hours to decide where to eat and eventually we settled on Oriental Kopi 

• Went to eat and H1 realised that I was wearing my shirt upside down. She was laughing her ass off and I rushed to get it changed. She took a video of me. Leave it to my daughter to make an idiot out of me

• Had some rice and curry which was okay. Oreintal Kopi food lack vegetables. They only have cucumbers which sucks. I did have the cendol but there was a lot of red bean there. I forgot I don't really like red bean 

• Went to the park to give the fishes our expired bread and then the girls saw some dear which were cute.

• Came home did the rest of classes and played some Hades 2 

Death: In other note. One of my favourite Actors Caterine O'Hara died at 71. I rarely put death of a random person I knew but she was special. She will be remembered on how she touched lives with her funny performance. Rest in peace. 

With that 2026 January has come to an end. This was a terrible month for me. With the going viral the whole country and getting scammed. This month seems to end on a low note. But they do say if you hit rock bottom, the only way to go is up right. So lets hope the months things will go up. But again... follow the flow