Feburary is off to a busy week. With dad in law got a bad case of food poisoning. Wife is busy with work and me with friend issue. There is a never a dull moment in my household. I still want to carve out time to play some videogames. I'll be happy if we can get 10 games this year. I tihnk playing games its not on my list of priorities.
Feb 1
• After class got a call from step mom in law saying that my father in law fall down and he wants met to help carry him. Woke up wife, H2 wanted to tag along and we went to dad's house
• In the car we had the fight again about why I think it is a bad idea for wife to buy the house. I said my peace on why I hate her mom. I hate her mom (your grandma) because for all the years we are married he mom is the only thing that manage to screw my wife again and again which will cause her to be depressed. I can bet this deal that she makes to buy the house from my mom will definately screw her over somehow which I know it is going to happen. But again... its not my money and I can't have a say on anything.
• Came to dad in laws house and he was in the toilet. They told us she was have uncontrollable diarrhea and poop went everywhere in the room. My two brother in laws were there and I wanted to help but I can see that my dad was uncomfortable seeing me there so I stayed outside the toilet
• Then came the part the kids are trying to convince him to go to the hospital. Even my wife can't convince him to go to the hospital. My father in law is a stubborn person. He burst again the living room and this time poop was all on the floor. He went back to sleep and there is nothing much we can do.
• Sister in law arrived but brother in law had to go home to pick up some clothes to stay the night since none of us can stay the night. After a while sister in law bought us some food and we left in the evening
• The cleaner was supposed to come to massage wife but the rideshare fare was too expensive so she decided not to come. Did classes and then went to sleep
• My mom just finish her spritual seminar and was on her way home by bus. Arrival time tomorrow morning and my brother will pick her up
Feb 2
• After classes this morning I decided to cook something new. I made some ceaser salad pasta chicken. It was delicious
• Took a nap while the girls watch some Mandalorian.
• In the evening it was decided that I have to go to my dad in laws house since the others are busy with other comittments.
• In the evening got packed up (left my charger plug but just the cable) send H1 to her university and went to my father in law
• Father in law is feeling better so talk to him and my step mother in law and around 11pm I went to sleep
• My best friend was crying today. She is just so tireed with life. I told her that everything is going to be okay. Take it a day at a time
Feb 3
• This morning woke up and did classes in father in law house. After class I went down to see what dad is doing. I ask him lets go to the hospital and he said yet. I even got him to eat a banana.
• At 1030am we arrived at the hospital. Dad was pushed to the observetory and he was put on a drip. We were allowed to sit with him and I took that time to take a nap. The doctor arrived later and his blood test results were not that good. His kidney function is quite bad and he doesn't want to be hospitalized due to not having insurance. So we paid the bill, got the medicine and went home.
• Before going home we went to pick up my brother in law so they dad can take his BMW which is in the shop. I told him to see the car because it is an old piece of junk but knowing him. He will do the opposite.
• Left home after 2pm and pick up the cleaners and then pick up H2 and wife and went home
• I ate leftover porriage with some condiments I bought at the nasi lemak store. Wife and H2 ordered some homst. Send the cleaner back around 11pm. Today she didn't clean she instead gave wife a massage.
• I got a text from an old friend. Just watch catching up. Last time they came to see was 6 years ago. They maybe want to come down end of this year. But that is a problem for another time
Feb 4
• Would you believe I forgot to blog about today. Lets see if I remember anything
• Good thing I told someone about my day. So send H2 to school. Today she is dress is nice cloths since it’s Arabic day. She is in charge of plates and cups.
• Send wife’s car after sending her to work to be serviced and pick it up by 1
• Today cooked some tandoori chicken with roasted potatoes since I need to finish that Greek yougurt.
• When picking up H1 we went and pick up H2. H2 and boyfriend stayed until dinner at ate the meal.
• Pick up cleaner by 4 and send her mom by 1130
• Got into a fight with wife. She said she doesn’t want to give sex to me anymore and I think I am okay with that. If I stop asking her I will be okay. So I think starting today I don’t have don’t have a wife anymore and I am okay with it. There is always something at the end of the tunnel
• Best friend text me and said that loan sharks came to her because her father borrowed 35k and they are asking with interest. Sigh… that’s more money down the drain
Feb 5
• So my friend dad borrowed money from some loan sharks and she needs to pay them 50k otherwise they will do bad thigns to her. So after sending wife I went to get some groceries and pick up H2. Went to the bakn and took out some money to gave to her. I am running out of funds... Im sad but its okay. It is just money. I will get it back
• Today since is thrusday I will have to stay late at wife's uni so I cooked some yakisoba and then did classes there.
• Met a new friend which is the lawyer of my friend. We are both worried about her but the friend told me it’s going to be ok.
Feb 6
• This morning H2 decided no to go to school since she has sports day training and she doesn't like sports day. So I get to do extra classes before sending wife to work
• Came back and got ready to go to the mall. Wife wanted to eat there. We had some indonesian food. H1 came with hr boyfriend but we already left. I gave her some money to eat.
• At home the girls watched some mandalorian and H2 made a very beautiful flower with led lighting
• My best friend is not having a good day. She is crying to the situation. I tried to cheer her up but it only makes matters worse
• The other best frieinds is reeling from a breakup which is causing her to self doubt herself which is not that good.
Feb 7
• After classes we bought some food nearby and headed to dad in laws. Everyone follows even the reluctant H1
• Met dad in law. He is looking great only still a bit weak. But his apetite is back so that is a plus
• Took a nap on the couch while the others took a nap at the room. Left the place close to 430pm. Stop my Mcd for some ice cream
• Did some classes and at night made some chicken burger with fries for dinner.
• My friend was annoyed that I keep texting her lawyer asking about her. She said is an invasion of privacy and I am more conceren as her friend. I don't think I will get through to hre in this short time. It is okay. This is a work in progress. But going forward in the future I am going to refrain of giving money. Now I understand why you want to put expectation on something you have no control off. I think I need to temper my expectation and just go with the flow. I leave it to Allah to guide me.
Next week the onlyl thing I am going to look forward to is my best friend coming on Friday because I am hosting dinner for his family. Other than that lets pray of an uneventful week because that is all I hope for. Plus I want to try to finish Hades 2 by this week so I can move on to my next game.
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