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Sunday, March 16, 2025

Week 11: Wife is very depressed

I Freaking hate my mother in law. But this time she has cross the line by making my wife super depressed. When she is depressed she is taking it out of me and I don't do anything to deserve this. This week sucks Mar 9 (Day 8) unmemorable

• Mom in law and cleaner went home but not before leaving a baggage of trauma for wife. She wasn't having it. Mom in law action is making her having post traumatic stress issues when she was a child
• So the whole day yesterday she was upset and crying most of the time. Her mom did a number on her
• Today bought some chinese food so no cooking for me today
• H2 is on her period so no fasting for now

MarIO (Day 9) unmemorable
• Wife is still having a dpressive day. Her mom is making it even worse by not understanding the situation and saying that this is not her fault that she is behaving like that. But it's excatly her fault
• When I am stressed I will cook something weird. So today I decided to make some Japanese Sandwich (Sando) which is egg and potato corquete plus chicken pesto. There was so many components in the dish that I almost didn't get to finish it before break fast

Mar 11 (Day 10)
• Wife is getting better but not fully better. She is getting there. She finally told me that the reason she is her mom wanted her to help her get some money by contacting her ex rich bf. She had that face of disspointment when my wife couldn't give her what she wants. That triggered a trauma in her when she was a child which she thinks she is not worthy.
• Today I cooked some chicken kurma, veggies and grill mackeral. They were all so tasty
• Wife a bit sensetive so whatever H1 said she gets upset. So I told her off which doesn't do any good.

Mar 12 (Day 11)
• Cooked some pesto for the girls, sardines and baked chicken
• Wife dad came to see her. She felt better after talking to dad
• I send the pasta at 630pm to H1. Met her boy friend at the same time. Got to talk a bit
• After praying I hang out with dad and wife before going to sleep. They maange to talk until 1am. I am glad her dad is still around

Mar 13 (Day 12)
• Dad sahur with us today and the left around 10am
• Today H2 got an event with her class so it just leaves me and wife
• So I went to bring wife along the mall and we had iftar at a steak place. I ordered the chicken chop while she ordered the chicken maryland (which comes with a fried banana) we came home just in time for me to go terawih

Mar 14 (Day 13)
• Today I decided to cook some Chicken Rice since its the simple thing to do
• My brother called me and said that he is in the area and needs to give me something (which was two fire exthinguishers). So after picking up H2, we went to pick him up and send him to the airport. He talked non stop about his work. I miss my brother, I don't get that much time with him but I cherish evey moment of it.
• My brother gave us some cornflake cookies. It was so good that I ask my brother to order more later. He ordered 20 more
• I talked to a new twitter friend. She was worrying about her love life. I said not to worry that much. If it comes, it comes
• My hacker contaced me again wanting more money. As usual I said no.
• I am frustrated at my wife, she is getting that is staying at home and wants to go on vacation but doesn't want to spend her money. She wants me to cut money spending on food. The problem is I already cut spending on food. I am sad at this situation but I will deliver. I always do

Mar 15 (Day 14)
• Pick up the cleaner and we gossiped about the state of my mother in law. It's bad, she has been relegated as the maid and my step father in law is the driver since both brother in law and wife can't do anything. In a sense I feel sorry for her but I also don't at the same time. I already ask wife to block her so that means she can't emotionally blackmail her with the baby
• Wife student came down so we need to go to see dad in law in his shop. The student like to do tiktok shop and has lots of followers. So my dad in law wants her to sell her bags

Another 2 weeks + before the end of Ramadan. Hopefully next week will be better. I have nothing much to look forward to next week.

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