This week has been a sad week for the family since we lost the cat. It was careless on my part but it was bound to happen. Death is unavoidable but it is not easy when it happens. H1 is not back yet and this is the longest I haven't seen her. Miss her but this week has been very eventuful
Jan 12
• Went to get H2 eyes check
• Bought some custom Japanese glasses that cost a fortune
• Bought wife an early birthday present of sunglasses
• Made some fried rice
Jan 13
• Made some rice balls for H2
• Went to the bank with wife and took out close to 19k
• Ate at the mamak with H2
Jan 14
• H1 invited her friends to come over and they request me to make them some chicken katsu curry which I did.
• In the evening H1 need to go to her uni to finish work. She is going to stay there for a couple of days. I thought her friends would leave but instead they just stayed for an extra 4 hours more. I was so tired until wife had to kick them out. One left and one more decided to stay. We are okay with it. It's not a big issue.
• Helped out wife with work and was passed out at 10pm.
Jan 15 (Unmemorable, Death)
• I made some salmon curry today
• Mom came over
• Wife was not feeling so well. She is having bad anxiety due to her KPI
• This evening I notice I couldn't find Baby (our black and white cat). I looked outside and found her lifeless body. It looked like she has been dead for a couple of hours. Most likely got attacked by monkeys. Told my wife and then borrow the neighbours shovel to dig a hole beside the house. H1 is not here since she is at uni so we broke her the bad news. Wife took one of my t-shirts since we couldn't find a box to fit baby and I carried her for one last time. Her lifeless body and put in to rest for one last time. I know that death comes for everyone but really I don't know how I am going to face it when it really happens to the people I love.
Jan 16
• Today feeling a bit mellow due to yesterdays events.
• H1 told us that she doesn't want to stay with us next semester. Since baby is no longer here she has no point to stay. I am sad since I love H1 being at home but I think baby passing was so that H1 could fly. So yeah I am happy for her for being a bit independent from us
• Mom bought food today. Mom was there giving me a pep talk on how death is inevitable. The problem is that, its not easier. But I think we can't mourn for long. Life has to go on and Insya Allah good things will come
Jan 17
• Mom cooked a feast yesterday because cousin came for lunch
• Had to send wife to her exams and pick up the paper
In other news: David Lynch died today. I just finish Twin Peaks.
Jan 18
• Today went on a tour with my mom back to our hometown to visit my uncles and aunts
• First uncle we visited was 84 (pak itam). He had a storke a couple years back and now his legs are giving out. But the sad part is that he has two handicap daugthers, my cousins age 50 and 51 respesctively. I wonder what will happen when my uncle and aunt are no longer here. They treat us to Nasi Lemak in the morning
• Second we visited another uncle at 90 (pak ngah). He is getting old and now he is seeing ghost. They do say when you get closer to death. The devil will come to make you see things. But today he looks good so that is great. We had lunch for yellow curry chicken and lots of fruits
• Third is a 80 year old uncle. He doesn't have any problem. In fact he doesn't look 80. He looks like he is 60+ and still is strong. Had some tea and just talked
• The last which is the greatest is we visited my uncle and aunt that is around 85 and 78 (aunt birthday was today). Most of my cousins were there. I love these cousins since I am always the funny one here. We had a lot of food. I had some beef belly, beef, veggies and lots of rice. We ended up talking for 3 hours before heading home
• Going home I notice that our fuel was low. But we really couldn't find a petrol station. So for the first time in a year, I drove below the fuel gauge. That was so dangerous and no I won't want to do it again
• H2 aunt came to day and took her back to mom in law house. H1 is still in uni until Tuesday so she did ask me to order her some food for dinner.
So there you have it. Week 2 and is already not a good start to the year. It is going to take a while for the family to recover and we still have 50 more weeks to go for this yea r
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